First company I was at is currently at 47K.

Current company I’ve been for half a year has 23K.

Retirement Balance (and how you got there): 110K? This is hard because my retirement balances are at 3 different places and we all know how the market is right now. If a guy ever gets jealous that you’re more successful than him, gaslights you, and you’re just convincing yourself everyday to just stay with him, run. The amount of value I put on just having someone who supports me for who I am, is not pushing his life choices on me, and makes me happy is something I never realized was vital in a relationship. He relocated for me and is now searching for a job but I’m not stressed about financials because of all the expenses at the moment. I currently don’t share any expenses for B and he does not pay me for rent and/or utilities. Post divorce I’m still dealing with debts and at least every few months I feel like I’m throwing thousands at some debt I didn’t realize was in my name and/or just trying to move on with my life. Coming out of a divorce post COVID really put a perspective on what makes me happy. I realize my finances are sometimes a mess and I’m trying to live my best life. Spoiler Alert: I failed in finishing my taxes and the tax forms is still piled up in my office.įull background.

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